Ever snap at someone and later wonder, “Why did I overreact?” Last week, my daughter refused breakfast and I felt my pulse spike. I caught myself mid-yell and remembered something my friend (and mentor) Fiona Lukies taught me: “You’re not in a relationship with that person—you’re in a relationship with your thoughts about them.” That
When it comes to messaging, there are 4 main areas I like to focus on: educational (what to do), thought reversal (shifting perspectives), self-identifying (so your audience is thinking, OMG, that’s me!), and the fourth and the most overlooked of them all is connection content. Ready to learn why and how to connect with your
Are you still hand-crafting every email, ad, and social post? I was, too, until our in-house AI beat me at my own game. Last week I ran a blind test, feeding our AI and my own brain the same ad prompts. I thought I’d crush it. Guess what? AI cut our cost-per-lead in half and
I remember telling Taylor back in the Video 4X days that she’d be a killer entrepreneur. She laughed and said, “No way, not me.” Yet three months after launching her own agency, she hit $10K in monthly revenuewithout a fancy website, an army of followers, or any extra fluff. Today on the podcast, I sit
Ever feel stuck, waiting for that lightning-bolt moment of clarity… only to watch days (or months) slip by? Trust me—I’ve been there. Between a divorce, two underperforming launches, and $40k in debt, I spent six months trapped in my head, longing for one perfect idea. But here’s what I learned: clarity isn’t a single moment. It’s
Ever snap at someone and later wonder, “Why did I overreact?” Last week, my daughter refused breakfast and I felt my pulse spike. I caught myself mid-yell and remembered something my friend (and mentor) Fiona Lukies taught me: “You’re not in a relationship with that person—you’re in a relationship with your thoughts about them.” That
This year has been brutal for almost everyone I know. Business hiccups, family dramas, even literal “truck hits you in the face” moments. I’ve been there—feeling unheard, shouldering old baggage, resisting change until life forced me to let go. Those hard hits can crush you… or they can be the catalyst for your biggest growth.
Ever seen an account hit 10K followers in 32 days? (21k now, 10 days after this episode was recorded.) Well, my team just did it as a side-hustle experiment. No warm audience, almost zero ad spend, and 99% organic reach. We leaned into one core principle: specificity. Then we used our Messaging AI Bot to test new
